How A Promising (Young) Woman Gains Sovereignty Over Her Body
6 min readMar 3, 2021
(note: this post contains descriptions of situations (including alcohol use) in which there is a risk of or actual sexual violence)
I met my first husband while I was lying on the bathroom floor of his fraternity house. He shook me into enough consciousness to stand me up and then carry me into a quiet bedroom, away from the jam-packed party. I was nineteen…